UnWrite the Rules

It's time to be YOU

Does this sound familiar?

You’ve always been the sensible one. Doing what’s expected of you. The good girl. Good grades. Further study. The pragmatic choice. The stable job.

But somewhere along the line you started to wonder if there should be something more.

Is this really how you want to spend your life?

Are you confident that you’re doing what you were put on earth to do?

You’ve got the career, wealth and material success – but still at the back of your mind you can’t help but wonder…

Is this all there is?

I’m here to show you how to unleash your inner rebel and start living life on your own terms.

What do you want to learn how to do first?

You (yes, YOU) have the power to shape a life that has you jumping out of bed with a smile on your face every single day. Well, almost every day. Practically all the days, okay? Learn how to listen to your inner self and start creating a life you love.

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So you know what you want, but you just haven’t got around to doing it yet. That’s crazy. STOP PROCRASTINATING! Learn how to set and achieve goals, discover productivity tools and hack your habits so you can (finally) get stuff done.

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7 Reasons to Write a Personal Mission Statement

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The Easy Way to Track Your Goals

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How to Make a Wish Come True

It’s the dream, isn’t it? Knowing the secret of how to make a wish come true? As I child I was obsessed with tales of Arabian genies, supernatural beings with the power to grant three wishes. I’d scour charity shops, and every time I saw a bottle that even slightly...

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Why Everyone Should Move to Mexico

It's hot. Stinking, boiling, unbearably hot. It feels like my skin is burning to a crisp and getting ready to melt right off, carried down my body by the river of sweat dripping off me. And the mosquitoes. They're like ninjas, nowhere to be seen then *bam* I’m...

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How to find your passion (when you don’t have a passion)

If you read my last post, you’ll have seen how much I hate being told to “follow my passion.” Today, I’d like to show you how to find your passion. Well, kind of. I’m not being a hypocrite, I promise. Let me explain. Like I said in this rant articulate defence of...

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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

 Dr Seuss