Hi! Trish here.
I'm a former diplomat who traded in a respectable career for the life of a wandering nomad.
Now I've made it my mission to show other women that dancing to your own drum beat is the best way to live.
It's time to start living life on your terms.
Extrinsic vs Intrinsic Motivation I’m a sucker for clickbait. I’m not talking about the transparently trashy fake ones that motivate you to click by writing things like “She walked in the room and you’ll never believe what happened next” or “Lose belly fat with this...read more
What did you want to be when you grew up? Ask a classroom full of kids these days, and you’ll hear from wannabe doctors, teachers and astronauts, aspiring bakers, scientists and vets, pro-athletes and even video game designers. What you won’t hear is any of those...read more
Did you know that the bacteria in your gut might be part of the reason you’re fat? And why your annoyingly slim friend can eat junk food all day long and not gain weight? At least, that’s what seems to be the case according to the research quoted by Dr Michael Mosley...read more
We’ve all seen them. Mission statements composed of a long series of meaningless words strung together just to look impressive. Things like: We will work to interactively negotiate enterprise methods so that we may endeavor to globally recontextualise excellent...read more
[Setting goals, achieving goals, goalsetting worksheet, goal setting template] Have you ever had one of those moments when your mind just explodes? Not literally, obviously, or you’d be struggling to read this right now what with the gooey brain explosion gunk. No, I...read more
Meet Dave. Dave is very clever, and likes to show how clever he is by poking holes in other people’s ideas or opinions. He’ll point out why your idea will never work, or share an example of some other “idiot” who tried what you’re attempting and failed miserably. Dave...read more
It’s the dream, isn’t it? Knowing the secret of how to make a wish come true? As I child I was obsessed with tales of Arabian genies, supernatural beings with the power to grant three wishes. I’d scour charity shops, and every time I saw a bottle that even slightly...read more
It's hot. Stinking, boiling, unbearably hot. It feels like my skin is burning to a crisp and getting ready to melt right off, carried down my body by the river of sweat dripping off me. And the mosquitoes. They're like ninjas, nowhere to be seen then *bam* I’m...read more
If you read my last post, you’ll have seen how much I hate being told to “follow my passion.” Today, I’d like to show you how to find your passion. Well, kind of. I’m not being a hypocrite, I promise. Let me explain. Like I said in this rant articulate defence of...read more
I don’t have a history of high blood pressure, but if one more person tells me to “follow my passion” I may well be in danger of having my arteries explode with fury. (Don’t try to picture that too intently. It’s gross). And for someone who rarely lifts her voice...read more
I’m writing this post while sipping mint tea and munching on a refreshing ceviche in a cafe in a little town sitting beneath the slopes of Arenal volcano, Costa Rica. If I’d written it last week, I’d have been typing from a penthouse apartment overlooking the...read more
Gosh I love the first week of January. To me, the start of the brand new year is bursting with promise and anticipation, and it’s blissfully free of the cynicism and weariness that so often attach themselves to us like limpets* as the days, weeks and months wear on....read more