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Does this sound familiar?

You’ve always been the sensible one. Doing what’s expected of you. The good girl. Good grades. Further study. The pragmatic choice. The stable job.

But somewhere along the line you started to wonder if there should be something more.

Is this really how you want to spend your life?

Are you confident that you’re doing what you were put on earth to do?

You’ve got the career, wealth and material success – but still at the back of your mind you can’t help but wonder…

Is this all there is?

I’m here to show you how to unleash your inner rebel and start living life on your own terms.

What do you want to learn how to do first?

You (yes, YOU) have the power to shape a life that has you jumping out of bed with a smile on your face every single day. Well, almost every day. Practically all the days, okay? Learn how to listen to your inner self and start creating a life you love.

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So you know what you want, but you just haven’t got around to doing it yet. That’s crazy. STOP PROCRASTINATING! Learn how to set and achieve goals, discover productivity tools and hack your habits so you can (finally) get stuff done.

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Whose life are you living?

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Why I decided to live by my own rules

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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

 Dr Seuss